Nick: Gerontius
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 12:58 PM PST
Subject: Whatever happens, John Donne has the words...
Message:
Sorry to bring this up again, but I finally decided to add my two cents to the tributes to Widfara. I haven't up until now as I haven't been round here very long and couldn't begin to claim that I new her at all. Nevertheless, for those of you who did I offer these uplifting words from John Donne
Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art not so;
And those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death; nor yet canst thou kill me.
From Rest and Sleep, which but thy picture be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow;
And soonest our best men with thee do go-
Rest of their bones and souls' delivery!
Thou'rt slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell;
And poppy or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke. Why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally,
And Death shall be no more: Death, thou shalt die!
Nick: Mirkwood Maiden
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 12:59 PM PST
In Reply To: Whatever happens, John Donne has the words...
Message:
Oh Thank you G! This is my very favourite of Donne's sonnets!
Nick: Quickiegirl
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 1:00 PM PST
In Reply To: Whatever happens, John Donne has the words...
Message:
John Donne is my favourite poet! Very soothing but powerful
Nick: Aydria Elenlinn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 1:01 PM PST
In Reply To: Whatever happens, John Donne has the words...
Message:
thanks, Gerontius.. love John Donne!
Nick: Taurewen
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 1:15 PM PST
In Reply To: Whatever happens, John Donne has the words...
Subject: Thanks for that :'(
Message:
I haven't been having the greatest day, so I popped on to TORn to lurk for a while (haven't been posting for a few months, just got too busy w/ school and such) as I often do, and this tragic news was the first thing that hit me after not being here for the past few days. I can't claim to have known Widfara much either, but she will be greatly missed, as a TORnsib, and as a friend to those who knew her as others have demonstrated.
I just have to say, I was really touched by the outpouring of emotion by everyone here, it is really encouraging to see such a wonderful spirit of friendship and community... surely you have honoured Widfara as deeply as she deserves. {{hugs to everyone}}
Spoiler Message:
"sorry if that came out sounding strange, it's hard to write in this state :'("
Nick: Nessimë
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 2:33 PM PST
In Reply To: Whatever happens, John Donne has the words...
Subject: I just came across some of John Donne's work...
Message:
... the other day and have definitely added him to my list of things to learn more about.
Thanks so much for the poem.
Nick: BrambleroseBrandybuck
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:28 PM PST
In Reply To: Whatever happens, John Donne has the words...
Subject: I know that sonnet!
Message:
Ever since I saw "Wit" at a near-by theater, I have enjoyed hearing John Donne. That is my favorite one from the play.
Nick: Hobbitmomma
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 1:31 PM PST
Subject: Just found out.
Message:
I have been unable to check in for the past two days or so and I was so blown away by the news of Widfara's passing. I saw the many memorials and tributes and started going back in the postings to find out what happened. I did not know her well, but I welled up with tears nontheless. I am so sorry for this loss. I am terrible with finding the right words at times like this, so I will just say, "Godspeed Widfara! I know that you are in a better place. You will be missed." Thank you for your indulgence.
Nick: grammaboodawg
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 1:41 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: It's an awful feeling
Message:
when you realize something's happened and it just keeps unfolding and getting worse. I'm sorry you've been caught at unawares. Aerlinn has been arranging a wonderful gift of flower from us for her memorial tomorrow morning (Thursday). A flower arranged in A Ring of Friendship. You'll see as you scan on. But I'm glad you're here... and I hope you're okay. Big hug Hobbitmomma... take care.
Nick: Herself the Elf
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 1:48 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: I find it amazing
Message:
how you never really know how much someone touches you deep down. I caught up on all the posts today also. I didn't know Widfara very well but am touched to see what a big part she played in my and everyone else's lives. My prayers for you all and her family. May God bless!
Nick: Aunt Dora Baggins
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 2:02 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: That song...
Message:
has gotten me through a lot of tough times through the years. I don't know if you put it in your footer as result of the news, or if it just happened to be there, but it's perfect. Thanks for bringing that perspective to the day.
Nick: Seillib
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 2:06 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: I didn't know her at all
Message:
but I found out about it that first day, and I just sat at the computer and cried. I remembered how I was so pleased that she gave me 'invisible extra credit' on the last quiz, and I hope now it was because I made her laugh out loud. I am so sorry this happened!
Nick: Julie of the pointed ears
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 2:55 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: Prayed for her today...
Message:
I went in this morning and requested prayers from the religion teacher. I had a hard time explaining, and my voice cracked several times. I knew that she wouldn't understand, but as I watched her reactions, I wanted to slap her.
You, who always talks about prejudice, who always lectures on stereotypes, you stand there and grimace when I say that I knew her online! How dare you! You harp about religious stereotypes, but when I mention the words "internet" and "suicide" in the same sentence, you assume it's some kind of cult! Must I know a person to their face in order to love them?
She almost got it in the jaw when she asked if this was a "Wicca thing" but I restrained myself and told her that despite all of the rumours and misconceptions people have about the internet (hint, hint), those of us who meet and have friends online are not all weird and perverted freaks. And we are no less friends because I wouldn't know her if I saw her on the street.
She agreed to keep her in her prayers, thank God. And when I stumbled into class (so nervous was I she'd stand there and lecture about internet addiction) I was so proud of her when she merely said that "a student, who will remain anonymus, has a friend who committed suicide. If we could please pray for this person's soul, and for her family and... erm... friends." You don't know how relieved I was. She never keeps people anonymus. She always names names.
But by that time I had made up my mind. I would not lie and say that I had met her, or that I knew her from my previous school. I would not conform to the teacher's ideas. I would spend the rest of the year with people thinking I was some kind of freak with an internet addiction but by God Almighty and Saint Jude, I would tell them. I would tell them it was a Lord of the Rings message board (refer to the footer). I would say that I had never really known her. And if anyone dared suggest that maybe considering unknowns on an internet board to be friends was a sign of an unhealthy habit, I would not let it stand. I have made up my mind about this, and I will stand by it. We are all innocent until proven guilty, and I will not let anyone assume the worst. Maybe Widfara did have some kind of addiction; I have no proof and I rather doubt it (aside: just in case I'm being random, I'm talking strictly about internet addiction here: an unhealthy obsession with the internet that eats up your life). Either way, it is unfair to say that all of us are that way. I'm not. I may have a horrible inferiority complex and a fear of confrontation but I will not be labeled as that which I am not.
Anyway. My rant is over.
It's interesting to see the newbies, isn't it? New life, spring, and renewal. Such a lovely cycle. Gives you hope, doesn't it?
Nick: Aydria Elenlinn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:00 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: Good for you, Julie!
Message:
Way to stand up to the masses. People need to get over their internet-phobia. I would never deny knowing my "internet friends." I love you all!
Nick: Nessimë
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:12 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: Way to go Julie!
Message:
I found myself having to explain yesterday that just because you haven't met someone in person doesn't mean their words and actions don't touch you when they pass through your life. In fact, I have found that these relationships are often stronger with greater levels of trust.
I prayed for her last night too, and felt quite comforted afterwards. I hope you felt the same after praying for her.
Thanks for your post. :)
Nick: Aerlinn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:34 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: Marvelous!!!
Message:
You GO, Julie!! Good for you. Great for you - and Widfara.
It is awkward trying to explain how someone you never met face to face can mean so much. It has been - people's faces do change when you say it's someone you know online ... But you have the right attitude. This place is something to be proud of, and a little in awe of - never ashamed. God bless you, love - your prayers will fly true as Legolas's arrows.
Nick: Varda's Songbird
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:44 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: :*-) That's wonderful to hear, Julie!
Message:
You made my heart smile when I read that. I'm still shaken, even though I really didn't know Widfara very well, but that was good to hear :-)
Nick: Smokering
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 4:07 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: Good for you, Julie!
Message:
I never knew, till I joined TORn, how wonderful 'virtual' friends could be. I never knew people who seemed as happy and full of life as Widfara did, could be depressed. I never knew how much it hurt. Good on you for taking that stand, and for asking for prayers. i'm glad your religious teacher showed a bit of tact in the end! We *are* people, real people, not just message board junkies or potential stalkers who hunt down other Internet users, and so on, and so on--we are friends, whether we ever met each other face-to-face or not. I'm proud of you.
Aargh, I'm ranting as usual--thanks. I know this is gonna hurt us all for a long time, but I'm glad Wid's death has given some of us courage to say what was needed. Here's looking at you, kid!
Nick: LordM
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 4:48 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: Wow
Message:
I'm not religious myself but way to go Julie of the pointed ears and you think you have a fear of confrontation? Well if only we were all so afraid. You are clearly someone with integrity.
Nick: greendragon
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:41 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: You have my support, Julie!
Message:
How dare your teacher say, 'Is this a Wicca thing?' Anyway, Wicca is a religion too and shouldn't be condemned - but why on earth assume such a thing? When I got my picture with my big LotR freebie on the TORn front page, I was SO chuffed that I sent emails to friends and family telling them to go and see it. My parents never responded - not sure what they made of it - but why should we be anything but proud of TORn and of the wonderful community here? Thank you for praying for Widfara - and for being here with us all!
Nick: Tharangil
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:07 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: I admire your restraint
Message:
If an had adult said something like that about any (real-life or online)friend of mine, I don't think I would have bothered with self-restraint. I might have even hauled into that woman for a statement as crass and unsympathetic as that.
Nick: Watson
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:17 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: Gracious
Message:
When one asks for prayers on behalf of a departed friend and those who are grieving, their religion and how they became acquainted with one another should not matter at all. It is an act of compassion, and it seems to me that a good person would do so without requiring explanations. That it was even questioned -- especially by a religion teacher -- seems unconscionable to me. Good for you for standing up for what was right. Certainly, there are dangers on the net, especially if one is too free with personal information and not at all cautious, but it is not evil, nor are all people who participate in boards and chatrooms "weird." My dad, an 81 year old retired engineer and practicing Catholic, is quite active in a number of boards dealing with his field and retiree groups; he has a remarkably active social life outside the net, and is a perfectly normal, well-adjusted person. I suspect he's fairly typical of many who use the Internet. The net is just a tool, and any tool can be misused. It amazes me, sometimes, how many people don't understand that, and think it's a place where disturbed people hang out, waiting to prey on others.
Nick: Roheryn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 7:17 PM PST
In Reply To: Prayed for her today...
Subject: Good for you, Julie.
Message:
It takes courage to stand up to others like that, especially when they're in positions of authority. Good for you for standing up for what you believe in.
I was supposed to teach a class today. Instead, I told my students that a friend committed suicide and I wasn't up to teaching. I told them she was a special person and that she was much loved, and asked them to go out and tell someone they cared because that can make all the difference in the world. I never needed to mention that this was a friend I knew solely through written words, for I didn't think it entirely relevant. Someone had died that I cared about, and that was enough. I think you had more strength than did I for mentioning how you knew her.
As Wíd would say: Courage, my friend Julie.
{{{hugs}}}
Nick: Arathorn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:57 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: That's very sad
Message:
Though I visit TORN far less often since several months (and barely post anymore) and didn't know Widfara very well, I can remember the good opinion I had of her and how I liked her posts.
I won't even try to imagine the suffering of her relatives and friends, and I won't try to imagine how much she suffered to do that, because I know I cannot. I am sad and all my thoughts go to her family, her friends, to all of you here, and of course to Widfara.
I deeply hope that she's better now, wherever she might be.
(I hope none of this comes off too badly but I still have trouble gathering my thoughts after learning just an hour ago that terrible news)
Nick: Lady of the Mist
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 4:10 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: Me too. I called a TORn sib to say hi
Message:
and she told me the news. I haven't been on the TORn board for quite some time.
The news of Widfara's passing is so sad. I remember her great posts and her being one of the nice folk here.
She must have been in a lot of pain...so much pain that not even Tolkien's magic could transcend that pain.
I hope she finds the eternal peace she and we all deserve. My only consolation is knowing that perhaps she's having tea with Tolkien and discussing fun things.
God speed, Widfara
Nick: Pippin13
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 4:17 PM PST
In Reply To: Just found out.
Subject: I did not know her that well...
Message:
but when I heard it made me sad, and I prayed that she will go live with the Gods and Goddesses in Arda (LOTR).
Nick: Aerlinn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:40 PM PST
Subject: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
Well, the flowers are ordered! One of the few good things about my job is that my company has arrangements with other companies for associate discounts: going through that program, I got 15% off the wreath, which means that I could get the Premium wreath for the price of the regular one. If I can get AOL to stay up long enough (#%@! AOL) I will forward the confirmation to everyone who contributed. AND we still have (wait for it) $100 left over. Mrs. Boromir had the idea of sending a plant to Pat, who was thoughtful enough to bring us the news; the rest I will divide between this site and PETA of Norfolk VA (The PETA website allows for a memorial page - http://www.tfmemorial.org/submit.asp).
Description: This wreath tightly arranges a broad array of flowers and colors including 4 colors of roses, 2 colors of gerbera daisies, gladiolus and carnations, calla lilies, hydrangea and more. Arrives on an easel and is appropriate to send to a funeral home or service. "Premium" means "The floral arrangement is designed to look like the picture, with $20 added to the value of the arrangement - an upgrade with either more flowers or more expensive flowers."
Unfortunately, even when I sprang for the greeting card ($3.50) instead of the standard free enclosure, they still only allowed 230 characters - which included spaces (! They don't know us very well, do they?) (They also only allowed "English characters", so no ë or í.) After much painful pruning, I wound up with this:
Gift Message:
I WILL NOT SAY THE DAY IS DONE, NOR BID THE STARS FAREWELL.
IN LOVING MEMORY OF ROBIN, OUR WIDFARA
NAMARIE - HER FRIENDS
AT THEONERING.NET.
WIDFARA IS MY NAME, AND TO ME ALSO THE
AIR BRINGS MESSAGES. ALREADY THE WIND IS TURNING.
I hope to goodness they put the spaces in the right places. It would be nice to create a card with all of our names - does anybody know if funeral homes forward cards to families?
I have been constantly amazed by the generosity and outpouring of feeling since yesterday morning. I can't say it's been my pleasure to undertake this - if it had been for some other reason it would have been a pleasure - but it *has* been a privilege. It's been comforting having something useful to do. I'm glad to be able to facilitate sending a beautiful tribute to a beautiful friend. Godspeed, Wídfara
If anyone has any questions (or if you just want to talk) feel free to e-mail - [].
THANK YOU, EVERYONE!!
Nick: Scout B
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:44 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: The flowers and message are great
Message:
I think they're just perfect, Aerlinn.
You're a tribute to TORn yourself, my friend. Thanks for taking the helm during a tough time. I'm so glad we can express the way we feel in some tangible way.
Nick: Celandine Brandybuck
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:46 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Beautiful...
Message:
both the wreath and the message. Many {{hugs}} to you for all your work.
Nick: Lostcause
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:48 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Great!
Message:
The message, the flowers and your efforts are perfect.
Thank you...
Nick: Nessimë
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:49 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Thank *you*...
Message:
... this is just amazing! I feel quite humbled, and rather overwhelmed by everything that's gone on over the past 36 hours.
Thanks again for doing this for us, Aerlinn...
Nick: amanda marie
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 3:53 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: I only just found out.
Message:
Shelob-phobic emailed me yesterday, and I didn't check it until today.
Something so unexpected like this is hard. I didn't even know Widfara, and I never talked to her much on the boards. But, it's still hard.
The wreath is beautiful. And so is the poem.
Nick: Pippin13
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 4:12 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
I just found out today...But what beautiful flowers!
Nick: Smokering
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 4:18 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
Gorgeous flowers, and a beautiful message. Thanks.
Nick: Altaira
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 4:19 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
Perfect choices Aerlinn
Nick: Roheryn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:06 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Lovely...
Message:
I thought I was all out of tears for today, but apparently I'm not. That wreath is gorgeous, and the message is perfect. Thanks again, Aerlinn.
I went out today and bought myself some flowers; I've got them sitting by my computer now. Somehow it makes me feel better having them there. Eru grant us sorrow that we may better know joy.
I bought a card, too, in the hopes that we might be able to send something to her family, and I had the same question you did about funeral homes forwarding cards. I also thought it might be neat to send them some of the messages and tributes that have been posted over the last 36 hours. I'm thinking about putting together a collection of them.
My heart still aches, but I managed to laugh today - thanks to fellow TORnsibs - and I know she would have wanted that.
{{{Aerlinn}}} Thanks again for handling this. I'm really touched by everyone's generosity and compassion.
Okay, ramblings over...
Nick: Froda
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:19 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
beautiful, and the message too...
Nick: Silverlode
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:23 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Thank you so much
Message:
for doing this. The flowers and message are lovely. I hope Widfara's family will realize and take some comfort in the fact that Robin was so well loved.
Silverlode
Nick: Alnilam
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:23 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: I was thinking that we could create a message board
Message:
on a free board service and put all the poems and messages to Wídfara and her family there. Since a place like that wouldn't be as dynamic as TORN, it would be easier for them to go there and look through the messages once they feel they can. Someone who is not used to TORN would find it quite confusing to search for specific posts here.
Suggestions of free board providers:
Boards2go
Boardhost
Network54
Nick: Sigma698
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:25 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: You are the greatest...
Message:
The flowers look gorgeous and the message is beautiful. Thank you for all of your hard work.
"Farewell, and may the blessing of Elves and Men and all Free Folk go with you.
May the stars shine upon your faces!"
Nick: Aydria Elenlinn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:28 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: thanks so much
Message:
Beautiful flowers, a beautiful tribute, and a beautiful community of friends. Is there any way I can still contribute? I would like to help in any way I can. My e-mail address is in my footer.
Nick: LOTR_nutcase
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:30 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Lovely! I wish I could have contributed...
Message:
But I guess I missed the boat...God forbid there ever be a next time when I can!
*hugs Aerlinn*
I didn't know Widfara apart from taking a few of her quizzes, but I feel terrible anyway.
Nick: greendragon
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:34 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: another who just found out...
Message:
L.Ron emailed me to let me know - I'm so sad. Sorry to be adding this now when I'm sure everyone shared grief yesterday, but I just had to add a little message of my own. I'm stunned - Widfara always seemed so great. She always had something good to add - intelligent, thoughtful and witty - and never seemed to get embroiled in any 'squabbles' that went on here. I'm so glad a wreath is being sent from TORn - am I too late to contribute? Or can I help in some other way? Anyway, just wanted to say how very very sad I am - love to all at TORn at a sad time, and especially to any who knew Widfara personally. I'm glad we have such a supportive community here - hope she knows she is in our thoughts and hearts.
Nick: WrightWords
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:49 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Perfect flowers, perfect message.
Message:
Take care of yourself now that the "doing" is over. Hugs
To Ms. Widfara
Nick: grammaboodawg
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:49 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: You've made this easier
Message:
and so touching. What a blessing you are. Thank you so much, Aerlinn. It has all come together as it should and better than I could have hoped... thanks to you and everyone here. Hugs.
Nick: Tharangil
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 5:53 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Those are very beautiful.
Message:
I hope that Widfara likes them
Nick: Vairë the Weaver
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:02 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
Beautiful! Thank you.
Nick: Nimrodel
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:13 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
Lovely, Aerlinn. Thank you.
Nick: greendragon
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:18 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Just spoke to Diamond Took
Message:
Had to call her to let her know the sad news; she's been computerless for a while now and I know how much DT misses TORn. Just wanted to let those of you who know DT know that she is with us in thought and in spirit, and that Widfara is in her prayers. DT sends her love.
Nick: The White Rider
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:22 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
They are gorgeous, Aerlinn.. great choices
Nick: humblehobbit
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:45 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
What a beautiful message!
Nick: Light of Eärendil
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 7:23 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Beautifully done Aerlinn...
Message:
Thank you so much!
Nick: Lucien
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 7:45 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: *Well done*
Message:
Celandine emailed me. I was stunned, probably still am. Thank you for taking the time to convey our sympathy.
Nick: River-Woman
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 11:57 PM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Message:
Wondeful bouquet, Aerlinn. Thank you for doing all of this ...
Nick: Wandlimb
Date/Time: Thu, 10/24/2002 at 1:54 AM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Thank you so much Aerlinn
Message:
It is great to know Widfara's family will know all at TORn are thinking of her and them on this saddest occasion.
Thank you.
Nick: Tauriel
Date/Time: Thu, 10/24/2002 at 2:49 AM PST
In Reply To: Wídfara's Flowers
Subject: Thanks Aerlinn!
Message:
The flowers are gorgeous, and the message is perfect. Well done!
Nick: jflower
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:21 PM PST
Subject: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Message:
quizzes. Everyone who responded was in agreement that the quizzes should be completed. I have gone back and found the data for the past two quizzes and the last overall update that Widfara had done (she was just so organized). As well, I have printed out the basic guidelines that she set-up for the quizzes. It seems that Widfara was using a spreadsheet to keep track of the scores, so, I have set one up as well. I'm thinking that I will keep the Monday and Wednesday time slots for the quiz approximately the same (give or take a few hours) and I will start the next quiz on Wednesday Oct. 30, 2002 (I will send out a reminder closer to the date). All the quizzes should be done and overall results posted by Wednesday November 13, 2002. I hope everyone will participate in the completion of this project that Widfara worked so hard on. If I missed anything or anyone has something to say about what I have written please, as always, feel free to share. If anyone needs to contact me you can reach me at [].
Take Care.
Nick: Pukel-man
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:25 PM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Subject: Thanks you again . . .
Message:
. . . just remember to re-post them a couple of times if it's not too much trouble. ;-)
Nick: Aydria Elenlinn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:25 PM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Message:
thanks, jflower... I know I definitely appreciate your efforts!
Nick: Celandine Brandybuck
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 6:27 PM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Subject: Thanks, jflower...
Message:
it's a wonderful tribute.
Nick: Patty
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 7:08 PM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Subject: Thanks, jflower. These SAST quizzes...
Message:
were the first link I had with Widfara. They were such fun, and I told her so. Quizzes I could actually (usually) get a decent score on, and that, with her sense of humor were always so much fun to take. Continuing these is a very fitting tribute.
Nick: Roheryn
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 7:44 PM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Subject: Thanks for volunteering, jflower.
Message:
I think it's a great idea to finish the quizzes, and I'm sure Wíd would be touched that we enjoyed them (and her) enough to complete them in her absence.
Nick: Mar
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 9:03 PM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Message:
Another thanks. Every quiz will be a reminder of Wid
Nick: Eledhwen
Date/Time: Wed, 10/23/2002 at 11:53 PM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Subject: Thanks, jflower
Message:
Be prepared for an overwhelming response to these.
Nick: Wandlimb
Date/Time: Thu, 10/24/2002 at 1:49 AM PST
In Reply To: Thank-you everyone for your response to my idea yesterday and today. Here is what I will do then in regards to the SAST
Subject: This is great, jflower
Message:
I will look forward very much to the first jflower SAST quiz. Thanks for doing this.